Muselisation

A recent chat with a friend whom I was pretty close with, made me further realize as to how someone can really change over time due to unforeseen circumstances that took place.

So much for me feeling sad for myself from time to time about the things that has been happening, it was when I heard what had happened to my friend and his family that I realized, "Boy, he really don't deserve this."

This past close friend of mine was telling me that his mother had commit suicide while he was on detachment in Australia. With the fact that the mother had always been someone who was really cheerful and happy-go-lucky sort of person. It was even a harder fact to digest when she was so loving with her husband and close with the kids.

Everything happens for a reason, and I bet the mother of my friend might to glad to see how much her son had change since the incident took place. In a way, she might be really be happy to see that he is so much more a sensible person now, as compared to what he used to be.

Should we call this a blessing in disguise? Or is there something more appropriate that I could use? Because I bet having someone committing suicide is definitely not a blessing...